As with many milestones in life, your first kiss is often a memorable and exciting occasion.
“I was 17, and the girl I kissed was a high school friend of mine, and it was an amazing experience,” author William Keane says. “It was exciting because it was my first, and…this lip contact was definitely different than it was when I kissed my grandmother or my aunt.”
His first kiss left the impression that Cane – a pseudonym for Michael Christian from New York City – wrote the famous book the art of kissing.
Not everyone remembers their first kiss. Maybe it wasn’t that special.
“If it’s negative, maybe it’s better to erase it from memory, and you can focus on other kisses that might be more successful in the future,” says Kane.
Why is kissing important
The exact date of Kissing not clear. For example, we don’t know whether early humans accepted or not. Experts have long debated whether it is an instinct or something people learn to do.
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Kissing has probably originated and disappeared all over the world throughout history for a variety of human-related reasons familiarity and interconnectedness,” says Sheryl Kirshenbaum, an academic specialist at Michigan State University and author of The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Tell Us.
Kissing can serve a greater purpose than a sign of romantic affection. For example, Kirschenbaum says, it’s an important part of building a bond between mothers and children.
She says, “Our early experiences as infants often involve lip stimulation by being nurtured and kissed by our parents, and then, we associate these feelings with feelings of love, comfort, and security when we want to express how we feel about someone else.
“Kissing brings two people together like no other,” says Kirshenbaum. “Each partner actively shares all of his senses to get to know the other.”
Marilyn Anderson, author of Never Kiss a Frog: A Girl’s Guide to Creatures from the Dating SwampHe says, “Not only does it connect you, but it makes you happier, and reduces stress Stress, it can help you skin. ”
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But she cautions that when adults form a bond through kissing, this can turn into a problem.
“If you are trying to meet someone in the world, yes, kissing can definitely tell you if you are compatible with someone. And what I say in it Never kiss a frog Ho, don’t kiss the wrong guy, because it has a bonding effect on you. If you are too attached to someone and they are the wrong guy, you may stay with them for a long time.”
The health benefits of kissing
A lip lock is “the ultimate test of nature,” says Kirshenbaum.
Our lips are full of sensitive nerve endings that stimulate a relatively large portion of our body brain It is related to taste, touch and smell,” she says.
A hug is a way to gather clues about the suitability of another person as a partner, without realizing that you are doing it.
It also triggers the release of important chemicals in your brain. Kissing affects neurotransmitters and hormones such as oxytocin, dopamineand serotonin, which also plays an important role in our relationships,” says Kirshenbaum.
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Oxytocin, for example, is linked to feelings of closeness, intimacy and security. Show affection with you people the love It can boost oxytocin. When your body releases oxytocin due to physical touch, it can create the basis for your entire body’s well-being.
Kissing, cuddling, cuddling, and snuggling, even with pets, can make you healthier overall. These things may help you:
You might think that there is an influencing factor in participation saliva. Most of us have caught the cold From a sick family member, whether by a hug, a kiss, or just being around germs.
Research has found that couples share about 80 million bacteria within 10 seconds. But this is a small percentage of the tens of billions of bacteria that live in humans Mouth.
Is there a right or wrong way to kiss?
Kisses can have a variety of meanings. It is a way for family and friends to show non-romantic affection. In some cultures, everyone greets each other with clicks of the check or air kisses.
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When it comes to romanticThere is no right or wrong way to kiss, says sexologist Claudia Six, Ph.D., of San Francisco.
Everyone walks and puts one on Foot In front of the other, but we all look different when doing it, Six says. “Everyone has a way to go, and everyone has a way they accept.”
Still, you probably have a personal preference.
You may like it when your partner caresses your cheek or gently holds your neck while kissing. Or you may find a full-body hug more satisfying.
“I don’t know a lot of people who like to break up, but there are people who accept kisses and it’s really wet. Some people just don’t like that,” Anderson says.
But for others, a funny kiss may be perfect.
“I think kissing is not something you can really teach,” Anderson says. “I think if someone does something and you don’t like it, you can definitely tell them or try to teach them. But I think there is chemistry when two people kiss, and hopefully you find someone who has chemistry with you.”
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Six says that the basics of a good kiss are clear to most people: “Wash yourself with the brush teeth, Shave. I’m just saying, be present. That’s what I always tell people. It’s always about “how to be”. It’s not about what you do, it’s how you are.”
Kirshenbaum sums it up this way: “From comforting a baby to expressing romance, kissing has many meanings, and the people who do it best explain it.”
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